Sunday 17 April 2011

What are Factors of Real Love?


What are Factors of Real Love?

All of us have opinions on love, but very few can define it. This is considered as a universal and inconsistent emotion and thus is difficult to define. 

Attraction

If we consider the beginning of a feeling of love, it usually starts when some one turns you on. And you get turned on because you like some observable qualities in that person. This is the physical attraction you feel for a person. This is a stage where most people, make wrong decisions. It is because they can't differentiate between physical attraction and love. 

Compatibility 

Then begins the journey. When you start knowing the person more, then you tend to realize that a person comes with both the positive things and the negative attributes as well. This is the time when people weight their compatibility. 

Time as a factor 

Sometimes our intellectual abilities can be a hindrance in selecting a partner. love for some is considered as a factor that cannot be assessed by our intellect. Time is the best way to analyze if a relationship would work or not. So you can answer simple questions like Do I want to spend the rest of my life with this person or not? 

Science and love 

The latest trend of making sure two people are really in love with each other is by the use of something called Biomatching. For this you don't have to follow the traditional method, which believes in the test of time. If you look for potential partners at random, there is a chance that you just feel like you love a person and would miss the actual feeling of being in love.

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